No, you're not being a pain - I answered you too quick,

and got muddled between front and rear set-ups. (Hey, what do you expect, I'm old!

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Yes, a stock front bumper bracket attaches to the sides of the unirail by three bolts - adequate to hold the bumper on, and not a lot of margin for anything else.
BUT, even the OEM tow hooks add some more bracketry (is that a word?) and a strap extends further back along the outside of the rail which is bolted again. Any aftermarket (or home built) bumper which is expected to support tow points (e.g. receiver, hooks, D-shackles, etc.) and is worth its salt also include a fitting which extends further back along the rail with additional bolts.
So yes, we are expecting better than the stock OEM 3 bolt per side setup -which is for a bumper that is not intended to be pulled forward.
We're just trying to avoid scenarios in which someone has just drilled a few holes and attached a tow hook to the bottom of the stock bumper, or mounted an armor plated, monster pushbar w/D-shackles still only being supported by the six little OEM bolts through the side of the very end of the unirails. All of those quick fixes are just missiles waiting to be launched.
A long, long time ago (in a galaxy far, far away) I mentioned something in this thread about Common sense. That advice still holds - if anybody is expecting to be yanked off the side of CliffHanger 800 feet above the Colorado, do you want your life hanging in the balance of six little bolts in sheet metal retainers either on your rig, or the guy that's pulling you out?
Anyway Jump, thanks for keeping this subject honest, I appreciate the chance to explain further for the lurkers out there!
19 days before I head West . . . .
Mike in NJ

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