i have a rough country 4.5 inch lift kit and it works fine for me and i didnt spend alot of money on it. im just an average wheeler. so it works for me. when i have the money i would love to step it up to somthing fancier. dirt you never gave a price range you were looking to spend. if you were going to go with r.e. you might want to look at rock crawler or clayton. they both make very nice kits. cal most vendors dont offer alot of those items you suggested. they cost extra and are not included in the kits. but they are very good items to have. its all in how much money you have.