Scrappy, you're points are useless without cost discussions. If money is no object the choices are easy.
I don't agree that the stock D60 outers won't hold up. Sure, guys are breaking D60 knuckles, but they're usually Ford knuckles with high steer arms and hydro steering with way big tires. The GM and Dodge knuckles are holding up fine as far as I've seen. Really, even the Ford knuckles are fine except under extreme circumstances. Nothing wrong with the aftermarket heavy duty stuff, but we shouldn't automatically think that it's needed. It's more a problem of finding used D60 parts, so having to buy the aftermarket stuff.
For me, I'd like a D44 center section with a 35 spline ARB to run 60 inners. I need to find a GM D60 which is cheaper than a Ford HP60, and then all I'd use from the 60 is the C's, knuckles, and spindles. Kind of a waste, trashing a front D60 just for 3 parts. Buying new knuckles, C's and spindles, and hardware, looks to be around $1200-1300. If a guy can get lucky and find a D60 for $500 or less, fine, but otherwise by the time you get the rebuild parts for the old stuff you're not that far away from the cost of the new stuff.
Another issue is lug pattern and brake size. I already have good beadlock rims, and my rear axle is 5 on 5.5, so I need to get 5 on 5.5 D60 hubs. I also have alloy 15" rims, which means I have to go with 1/2 ton brakes because they won't fit over the D60 brakes. The cheapest kit to go 1/2 ton brakes and 5 on 5.5 is $800, but that's still cheaper than new rims and tires.
I can get a HP44 center section for $100. That means I can build a hybrid 44/60 with ARB, 35 spline inner/outer shafts, high steer, new C's and knuckles, and stock axle shafts and u-joints for around $4600.
Good axle, but not cheap.