Huh? I'll mention this to my g/f tonight, I have a funny feeling that she'll have some rather less than pleasant words about that nurse. Donating for any reason other than the donation itself has caused her some serious heartburn in the past.
As far as the needles go, I hate 'em, too. I get stuck 2-4 times a year for blood tests alone, I'm not interested in going for the full service oil change. There's also a huge difference in phlebotomists, some of them can carry on a conversation, get you to glance away, and by the time you look back, you're already stuck and running. Others..... best left unsaid how bad it can get.