xtrememtbiker85,
Don't get your feelings hurt over this topic. I kinda figured from your original post that maybe you were looking to hear from some people that shared your view of the XJ and what it means to you. What you've just discovered is that you are in the minority -in a sense.
That's the great thing about

, it's intention is to support those that are enthusiastic about the Jeep Cherokee XJ. Enthusiasm is expressed in many different forms. The fact that we have so many different forums shows that there is plenty of diversity here. There are guys that like their XJ mostly stock, mild trail modified, hardcore trail modified and extreme trail guys who have been infected with the bug that causes the removal of sheetmetal and replacing it with tube. And that only represents the guys that 'wheel their rigs. We also have a limited few that have built SCORE race rigs, 1/4 mile drag rigs, low-riders, "make-it-look-like-an-urban-assault-vehicle", and the bling crowd who think the XJ should roll on 22's and crank loud-as-hell music.
Basically, the majority of

users/members are off-road freaks who enjoy putting their rig and themselves through a challenge. You represent a minority who's challenge is to keep yours looking nice while it serves a multitude of purposes for you. Be proud of that. Someone's gotta keep an XJ looking like an XJ so the rest of us can remember what ours used to look like right?
And to answer your original question as to "why do they beat their rigs?".... well Bob Loose (BLoose) might be able a good example. He got most of his damage because people kept telling him "you can't go there on 32's" then it was "Nope, not on 33's"...... proved 'em all wrong and all the dents prove it - right Bob? :laugh3:
Oh yeah, then there's the ONE member we have here that represents darn near every one of those diversities into his single rig....... John Bjorum (96Classic). Not too many rigs can be described using all these words: Pretty, caged, tubed, locked, custom axle'd, blinged, NOS injected, stroked, beadlocked, leather seat'd, air adjustable shock'd, tube door'd, cowl hood'd, bed-liner'd belly, waxed, parks it in a "garage-mahal".... and has been to car shows as well as conquered many of the nastiest trails that Moab, Tellico, Paragon and Colorado have to offer .... Now that guy really IS sick....... :laugh3: