- Location
- Reno, Nevada
What would be without some drama?
It seems like there has been a fair bit of it lately, and honestly I only know of about 1% of it. But I'd like to share some thoughts, and insights, that might help us keep some things in perspective. I've been on since 2000 or so... and became an official member of the club in 2001 (I think). I've been a paying member ever since and did two terms as President of this chapter, which has been one of the 'bedrock' chapters of in my honest opinion. A few chapters no longer exist, for specific reasons unkown to me but we can speculate that there may have been disagreements, drama, or perhaps nobody wanted to step-up and serve as BOD (which will result in chapters being disbanded). For that, anyone willing to serve should be given credit and appreciation, even if there are disagreements.
Over the years, I've seen many people come and go. Some sold their jeeps and moved on, some (I guess) didn't like the 'format', or the rules, and chose to join a Facebook wheeling group (there are many). So when I think "Why ?", why do I stay? what's in it for me? what's in it for others?
The main reason for me and I believe the number one reason exists is this: comradery, which is according to Merriam-Webster: a feeling of friendliness, goodwill, and familiarity among the people in a group
I like knowing that when I show up to a meet-up or trail run, that it is with people who are friendly, we have common interests (primarily the Jeep Cherokee, secondarily wheeling, outdoors, etc) and that my group will have my back and I have theirs. It is a brotherhood. Even if I show up and there is someone new, we can have that familiarity with each other as XJ owners. It can also happen with, ahem, Toyota owners, or Wrangler people, etc, but its not as easy or automatic, and can take some time to build trust (I'm not saying non-XJ people should be excluded). But especially at this point in my life, I have zero desire to go and join some random Facebook group, or go wheeling with random people who I don't know, so long as this group exists. Call me selfish, but here is where I believe the goals and priorities of and this Chapter should be:
#1 - Comradery (see above)
#2 - Resource and education. (the forum) has been the most comprehensive database of XJ/MJ related knowledge in the world (Yes the site's format was lacking for several years...) This also includes knowledge shared person to person. We can ask for help with anything, and local guys often help each other with doing the physical work like installs, repairs, or fabrication.
#3 - Trail maintenance: we should be good stewards of our trails, by not damaging them, littering, or being wreckless. We should be participating in work days and should be friendly and polite to other users. This is the first step in preserving our trails.
#4- Supporting Land Use organizations or other clubs: while this is extremely important, it is not THE primary goal of in my opinion. If we have the means to do so via fundraising and raffles, then yes we should be donating. However we should remember that we don't exist solely for this purpose. I don't show up because of a raffle. It's nice, but its not the reason I choose to be here.
That's just my opinion. Why I'm here, why I will continue to pay dues, why I'll participate, and I hope all of you will too. I don't want to see people choose to leave over drama. If they have to take a break and separate for a while, I understand. My hope is that they (or you) will return.
Cheers.
It seems like there has been a fair bit of it lately, and honestly I only know of about 1% of it. But I'd like to share some thoughts, and insights, that might help us keep some things in perspective. I've been on since 2000 or so... and became an official member of the club in 2001 (I think). I've been a paying member ever since and did two terms as President of this chapter, which has been one of the 'bedrock' chapters of in my honest opinion. A few chapters no longer exist, for specific reasons unkown to me but we can speculate that there may have been disagreements, drama, or perhaps nobody wanted to step-up and serve as BOD (which will result in chapters being disbanded). For that, anyone willing to serve should be given credit and appreciation, even if there are disagreements.
Over the years, I've seen many people come and go. Some sold their jeeps and moved on, some (I guess) didn't like the 'format', or the rules, and chose to join a Facebook wheeling group (there are many). So when I think "Why ?", why do I stay? what's in it for me? what's in it for others?
The main reason for me and I believe the number one reason exists is this: comradery, which is according to Merriam-Webster: a feeling of friendliness, goodwill, and familiarity among the people in a group
I like knowing that when I show up to a meet-up or trail run, that it is with people who are friendly, we have common interests (primarily the Jeep Cherokee, secondarily wheeling, outdoors, etc) and that my group will have my back and I have theirs. It is a brotherhood. Even if I show up and there is someone new, we can have that familiarity with each other as XJ owners. It can also happen with, ahem, Toyota owners, or Wrangler people, etc, but its not as easy or automatic, and can take some time to build trust (I'm not saying non-XJ people should be excluded). But especially at this point in my life, I have zero desire to go and join some random Facebook group, or go wheeling with random people who I don't know, so long as this group exists. Call me selfish, but here is where I believe the goals and priorities of and this Chapter should be:
#1 - Comradery (see above)
#2 - Resource and education. (the forum) has been the most comprehensive database of XJ/MJ related knowledge in the world (Yes the site's format was lacking for several years...) This also includes knowledge shared person to person. We can ask for help with anything, and local guys often help each other with doing the physical work like installs, repairs, or fabrication.
#3 - Trail maintenance: we should be good stewards of our trails, by not damaging them, littering, or being wreckless. We should be participating in work days and should be friendly and polite to other users. This is the first step in preserving our trails.
#4- Supporting Land Use organizations or other clubs: while this is extremely important, it is not THE primary goal of in my opinion. If we have the means to do so via fundraising and raffles, then yes we should be donating. However we should remember that we don't exist solely for this purpose. I don't show up because of a raffle. It's nice, but its not the reason I choose to be here.
That's just my opinion. Why I'm here, why I will continue to pay dues, why I'll participate, and I hope all of you will too. I don't want to see people choose to leave over drama. If they have to take a break and separate for a while, I understand. My hope is that they (or you) will return.
Cheers.