Michigan Rust Bomb... You are right, I should of eased into this project, but I'm programmed to do everything while I'm at it... which is always a slippery slope

Plus daughter thinks the tiny tires are wimpy looking & the Jeep has the factory installed cassette player which dates the look.
The 40K Black Beauty is very nice, much nicer than any 2 door XJ I have ever seen looking intensely for 3 years, before I found 25K Black Beauty. I'm glad it brought good coin on BAT, although 14K doesn't buy much of a nice 4x4 vehicle anymore.
As a concerned parent, I worry about my kids (and others) safety, main reason I picked XJ over removeable top LJ.
I will only use the very best suspension components & tires/ wheels & brakes. I do plan on keeping F&R sway bars, possibly upgrading to Currie or ORO bars.
Installing lift myself & daughters help, with everything properly set & torqued to spec.
If Black Beauty doesn't drive perfect after small 3.5" lift and small 31" tires, then I'll sell it before I risk safety.
My daughter has been driving lifted Jeeps and trucks since she was 13 as we live on acreage and miles of trails. At age 8 she's been driving Polaris RZR170 and at age 3 was driving dual battery 24V kiddie Jeep. So she's well versed for age 16.
I am also installing front and rear high definition camera's with DVR recording, so I can document any accident or wreckless driving on her part.
For sound system going in Back Beauty.... I am looking for Infinity tweeter sail panels in Agate... which would not require drilling a hole in the door panels.
I know they are hard to find so I will pay bounty of 250 for a pair !
My latest thought is... I've got to decide if I want the Boostwerks and Warn 8000# winch on this Jeep. That will add around 200# of weight to front and so probably won't get true 3.5" lift.
Therefore, I haven't pulled trigger on rear springs or shackles.