You can't tell if 35's will fit on your suspension with that amount of trimming. The question is more complex than that...factors such as rim backspace and width are crucial to flare contact. However, it looks to me like the people who are running 35's on 5.5" of lift have done more trimming than what your pictures show. I've never seen an XJ on 6" of lift with 35's with a full range of suspension motion that wasn't severely trimmed.
If you want to keep a relataively clean look, and you want to run 35's on 15x8 rims with 3.75" backspace in a typical setup, then I'd get the 7.5" coils. I think you'll find it easier to fit and won't get into having to limit up travel to avoid body and tire damage.
Either way, with 35's you are throwing caution to the wind IMO, so pick the lift and you'll end up making the rest of it work. I wouldn't spend too much time putting parameters around body trimming for an XJ that *needs* 35's...trail damage is likely to obscure your fine trimming work at some point anyway

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Nay