The rear tires will not wear faster with a Detroit, or any other auto locker. There is nothing in the operation of an auto locker that will contribute to increased tire wear. The characteristics that are noticeable occasionally with a Detroit are from the locker differentiating, meaning letting one tire spin faster than the other around corners, not from the locker locking up on the street.
Truetracs are usually not recommended for a rear application, they can be weak when used hard in the rear.....seen them blow. Basically, it depends on what stuff you want to wheel. If you want to get over what the next guy gets over, or doesn't get over, then you need the Detroit. Personally, I've never seen the advantage of a rear Truetrac, it's not cheap and requires a carrier change and gear setup. If you're going to do all that, you'd be much happier in the long run with the Detroit.