I first picked a Scout in 1991 and proceeded to dump close to 20k in it and it was still a POS. It sat at my house like yard art for 4 months when some other soon to be 4x4 poor guy offered to buy it, just for the 60's and the new 42TSLs on it..the best $3500 I ever made, I lost my ass but that PIT was out of my life and I was officially done with wheeling.A few years later along came a low milage 87 xj wagoneer with wood paneling for $700 it looked and drove like new. I noticed the D44 in the rear and decided to just put a small lift on it and that was it..no more money pits for me. First 3" and 31's then 5.5" and 33's..hmm needs gears now, might as well lock both ends too, "I mean I'm in there anyway" I told my wife, "what's a few hundred more to lock it?". Then 35's and hacking the body, "it's old and I didn't pay much for it, I'm just "trimming" it". After a near roll a cage was a must have, "geez, you want me to get hurt?" I told her. Then 36's, "hmm a good deal on beadlocks probably need those". "Honey, the SXs have a better sidewall than the TSLs, it'll save money in the long run". I started breaking front shafts a lot more than occasionally. The full width axle swap and now I was fully commited.
The XJ ended up crushed and parted out after blowing by the 20k mark in just a few shorts years. Then an MJ went through the same thing except expanding where the XJ left off.
This Oct. I quit fooling myself, after putting my wife through college for the last two years (it only ended up taking her 7 years to get a 4 year degree, her dad passed the tuition off to me after our marriage). I rewarded myself with a large budget buggy build and told my wife, "this is it, I'm done after this, no more mods etc.. when it comes out of the garage, it's officially done, period." She doesn't believe me and that's cool, it gives me room to add rear steer in the fall, after a spring and summer of wheeling.
The XJ is a badass platform, but if you get the bug really bad , a buggy seems to be the only cure, for me anyway.