Darn guys! Somebody has a bad day and/or makes a slip of the keyboard and we go straight to the castration knife. Be a little flexible, good days, bad days, smart days, dumb days. Ain´t nobody perfect.
I´ve found Eagle to be helpful and trustworthy, if you have a beef why not, private message him and ask for an apology. Don´t know him well, but know enough, he´d think it over and probably make a balanced judgement and say he is sorry or not.
Nature of an organization, is as a group, there is a greater well of knowledge than as an individual, pull out the usefull information, ignore the junk. Or do like I do wait your chance and get even, in a controlled manner.
Now back to the original question. Grab your front differential yoke and shake it up and down, if it´s at all loose, your probably gonna have to adjust the bearing preload (and probably sooner than later) replace the pinion bearings. Same with the front transfer yoke. To check the carrier bwearings, your gonna have to open thee case. Possible you have a dry front, axle shaft U joint, some replacement U-joints come nearly dry and need to be greased before installation, some come with packing grease, that needs to be removed and the correct grease added, just because it´s new doesn´t mean it´s good. They get much louder when in four wheel drive, when they are dry or rusted.
Last note, knew a guy that bought a XJ, with a 231, decided to drive it everyday in four wheel, lasted him less than three months.
I had a XJ, with a 231, shifted it in and out as necessary (patches of snow), got caught in an near miss with a truck, while in 2X, when I needed to be in 4X and bounced my XJ off the guard rail. Guess you have to find a balance between, praticality and fair wear and tear on your transfer.
I know one thing for sure, a few times I´ve left mine in 4X a little too long on near dry pavement. it has gotten it hot enough to hiss, when water dropped onto the T case. Water boils at 212F, at around 240 your Dexron is probably burnt.