Need the help of a family lawyer...

XJ Eric

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I could use some help in some child support things. Nothing too in depth, just some general knowledge on NY state child support law...

Anybody around there know anything or have a good lawyer they know in Upstate New York?
 
XJ Eric said:
I could use some help in some child support things. Nothing too in depth, just some general knowledge on NY state child support law...

Anybody around there know anything or have a good lawyer they know in Upstate New York?

I think you need Smith and Wesson. They will take care of the problem. :D

Seriously, good luck, man, lawyers suck...lol.
 
I found a lot of information online when I was researching this topic. Every state usually provides comprehesive information on this and similar topics.
 
what I'm really needing to know is what happens when you are paying child support to a woman and when you get married later and have a child... how does that effect the child support for the first child?
 
Each state has its own method for calculating and adjusting child support. It's senseless to say what other states do, because it has no bearing on Eric's location.

This link (https://newyorkchildsupport.com/publications.html) has a brouchure titled What Non-custodial Parents Need to Know About Child Support that provides basic info on child support in NY. It states: Every two years the child support enforcement agency automatically reviews each child support case to determine whether the amount to be paid should be increased due to cost of living increases.

If you don't agree with their assessment, you can protest.

Getting (re)married and having another child does not, in itself, change your child support. If your wife has a job, the court may actually increase how much you pay. However, if your new situation affects (not "effects") your ability to pay, then there's a good chance you can have the court reduce it. You will need to petition the court for modification.

Here's another link: http://www.child-support-collections.com/support-laws/new-york-child-support-law.html

As it states near the top, the NY courts do consider:
- Financial resources, needs and obligations of both parents
- Any needs of other children belonging to the non-custodial parent
- Any other relevant factor

Unless your income has increased dramatically, you're likely to incur more expenses having another child; therefore, you may succeed in getting your child support rate reduced. However, keep in mind the support is for your child, not your ex. Sorry if it sounds like I'm preaching, but some people use child support as a way to get back at their ex.

Took me all of 5 minutes to find and assemble this info. Google is your friend. :D Of course, you'd be wise to consult with an attorney to be certain about the way NY handles these situation. Good luck.
 
Thanks Tom,

I appreciate the info. I have done the google thing for myself, but I really was hoping that one of our readers/members of naxja was an actual NY state lawyer who could actually shed some real light. I've gone through the NY state sights and they are all HEAVILY biased to the custodial. The pamphlet you mentioned is the only one addressing non-costodials. Even it wastes most of your time preaching that you owe...

And yea they do use child support to get back at their ex'es. I'm the one on the recieving end for the last 6 years.
I don't make enough money to save a penny and both my vehicles are 10 years old. I need to buy a new car for the wife but I can't afford a car payment right now, let alone more child support.
 
From my personal experience with 15 years of paying child support they could give a rats ass if you're unemployed, layed off, cripled, blind, or crazy. The states gonna get they're money. Now getting the money to your babymomma in a timely manner, well that's not really important. I tried several times to get mine reduced and hit a brick wall. Never mind that I couldn't afford much more than Top Ramen and a $240 a month crap hole to live in. At one time they were taking nearly 40% of my pay after taxes and sure enough they would raise it every couple of years due to cost of living increases. Thankfully my ex wasn't a total bitch so when I finally started making decent money she didn't try to hit me up for more support.
I guess my daughter is lucky that her mom used the support for its intended purpose instead of buying drugs and a new Trans Am for her unemployed boyfriend. God I feel sorry for the poor bastards that have to see that happen.
 
I will share my scenario with you as I to was looking for legal advise not to long ago on here ( and I know we are in different states)

My now ex wife had an affair and then asked for a divorce after several months of trying to work things out. Before the divorce is final or we are legally split I agree to pay her 50.00 a week in support, now I know it does not sound like much however please keep in mind that I am maintaining a 50/50 split of "visitation". After a few months of her friends beating it in her head that she can get more she decides to take me through the child support office and make it official. Now heres where it gets funny, after they run the numbers and to all the calculations they do in fact side with her and raise my support to 51.00 a week thats right a whole dollar more then I was paying. She was not happy at all at this time so she lets it go for about 5 months then decides she was going to quit her job for a sufficently less paying job and then gets C.S. redone. Now this time the bitch got me getting it raise to 150.00 a week. So its time we get our divorce final and I am thinking I can get this lowered some, WRONG. Once again keep in mind that even with our Divorce final and custody level set at 50/50 or 182.5 days a year for each parent I am still paying that bitch 150.00 dollars a week. Now wheres the eqaulity in that. Moving on to two years later....

Current date:

My Ex decides out of the blue to move my kids 5 hours away and gives me an 11 day notice, reason for moving is to live with her boyfriend thats right I said boyfriend, who makes really good money and has been telling my ex she does not need to get a job he makes enough. So now I am in the dilemma of having to take my kids away from their mother or losing the relationship that I have with my kids (2) myself. If she moves my custody level goes down and thefore my C.S. will go up not to mention it will be my responabilty to arrange to get the kids home on weekends. Where the f@wk am I going to come up with the money for all this.

I have consulted an attorney and because our custody level was set at 182.5 days a year and I am the one with a job and stable house for the kids it is deffinitly more in my favor to be awarded primary custodial parent.

the bottom line is now matter what when a man and a women have kids then split it will always be a battle and a loose loose situation for all parties involved including the kids and new partners.

well now tat I hijacked your thread and got on top of my soap box for a minute i do apologize. But it feels good to rant and rave sometimes and it seemed like a good place to do it
 
That really sucks, the fact that she quit her job voluntarily should work against her. I know it work against a non-custodial parent!
 
XJ Eric said:
That really sucks, the fact that she quit her job voluntarily should work against her. I know it work against a non-custodial parent!

That is the shittiest thing about it is she can live off her boyfriend or even husband and never work again and I will always have to pay her gold diggin ass:soapbox:
 
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