Need Some Advice From You Guys...

Cherokeekid88

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I was working part time looking for a full time gig for about 3 months. I found a job at a bank that I am currently working at now. I have been there for 3 weeks now and honestly, I hate it. I am the type of person where I am use to being busy all the time and having things to do. At this job, I sit, sit, sit, sit oh and did I mention that I sit? I am only busy when I have customers. I have to cover up my computer screen where the clock is, so that I am not seeing the time go by 3 minutes at a time. I am working 6 days a week. Mon-Fri at the Bank job and Sundays on at my old job. So I only have one day to relax and do what I want all day. My problem is, Mon-Fri, when I get home, I am so stir crazy that I just freak out and I feel like I have to be on the go. I am honestly just unhappy with my current situation and to be quite frank...I am 22 years old and feel that I should have no reason to be stressed out or feeling this way. I should be having fun and living life before marriage and settling down, and I can't. I come home and all I can think about is ho I have to go back the next day, and I just feel that I can't thoroughly enjoy myself. So my questions is....do I just stick it out and be unhappy or do I go back to my old job where I was at least content with what I was doing and could actually enjoy myself when I got home and on the weekends and then continue to look for another job? I know that I should consider myself lucky that I have not one job but 2, but honestly, is being unhappy everyday and being short tempered with everyone around me actually worth it?

you tell me.
 
Sometimes a job just sucks but if you want to pay the bills you work it until something better comes along. I worked some real crappy jobs over the years just to get by. So what do want to do? I mean where do your interests lie? Like the old saying goes find a job you love and you will never work a day for the rest of your life. Figure that out and then start getting a plan together, i.e. school, prospective employers etc. You might even want to approach someone that owns or runs one of these businesses for advice. I spent years working to get where I am but I ended up landing both of my dream jobs...technology (IT Specialist), and stones and bones (Archaeologist). The only unfortunate thing I have found is that I only get to work one fulltime so I picked the higher paying of the two and kept the other for a part time fun money job. Goodluck with the search.
 
Well I have a chance at getting a job as a Beer rep, which is what I really want to do. The days are long, but the pay and benefits are great, and I work with my Future brother in law (he is a wine rep) from time to time to help him out and I love it! You never are in the same place the whole day, but I am not guaranteed this job. I had my interview last Wednesday and it went really well. The guy was very impressed by my resume and is really good friends with my boss at my old job. I also found out that he talked to one of my managers and she had nothing but great things to day about me, So I believe my chances are somewhat good, I just haven't received that phone call yet.

As far as what I want to do....I want something where I am not stuck in the same place all day long. Even if I am at one location for the whole day, I would like to do alot of different things in different places. I am use to always doing something and walking around, So sitting for 8 hours a day is torture to me and I honestly can't see myself doing this for much longer. As far as paying the bills....I really don't have many, So my last job was able to pay my bills. This job def pays more, but is it worth me being miserable?
 
What I would do for now is stay at the Bank... until you (if you) land the Beer job. That way for the time being at least you'll be able to make some decent money to start putting away for a rainy day. Like you said be fortunate that you actually have a job. How many people (especially our age) are unemployed and looking for a job right now? I just started an internship last week....not really how it's supposed to work after college...but considering the economy, i'm fortunate to have this job now. Even if it is only guaranteed to the end of September (for now), carries a 35-40 minute commute each way, and means that in about 3 weeks i'll be living on a friends couch for the next 2 months until I either find something better or get a permanent offer.

The knowledge gained along the way and being able to list it on a resume for future jobs are both priceless. Plus my main areas of expertise are automotive and manufacturing...this job falls in the latter so at least it's relevant.
 
As a small business owner I will tell you to aim high. Look at what you really enjoy doing, and then try to find a way to make money doing it. I have had jobs like yours, and I too hate them. My last job was working as a QC supervisor at a local stove factory. It was very boring, walking around all day for 10 hours looking at the same old parts all day long. Every now and then there would be some excitement, but not usually. Lets be honest, the only type of excitement you get at a bank is if you were getting robbed, and that's not exactly the type of excitement you look forward to. However, the other point of view is that you are getting paid decent money to do basically nothing. For some people that is great b/c that's all they want to do... nothing. But like yourself, I want to do things I enjoy. To ease my stress, I started Rock Solid Off Road Fabrication last year. I would work on vehicles for 4-5 hours every after noon when I got off from my 10 hour shift at the stove factory. Then, one day my boss (who was new to the position and started after me) asked me to meet with him and I did. They offered me a promotion in a new department. After speaking it over, I was told that I could possibly be in for a raise and the hours were a little better, so I took it. Well, after 2 weeks of this new job, he asked to meet with me again. The money situation was brought up and he asked me what I was making, as he didn't know since he was new to the job. Well, he had a puzzled look on his face when I told him, and it turns out that I was already getting paid more than max pay for the new position I had been placed in. Of course, they had already replaced me with a new guy, so at that point I was kinda stuck. I told him that I would walk out the door and not look back if they cut my pay, then I got up and walked out of his office and returned to doing my job. Two days later he called me in again and told me that he had no choice and he was going to have to drop my pay by $2.40 per hour. I stood up, and said "I told you what I was going to do if you did this, have a nice day" and walked out of his office. I gathered my things and walked to payroll, asked for my paycheck, then left and haven't been back since.

Since that day, I have been doing what I love in my very own shop. But don't let it fool you. Its EXTREMLY hard work running your own business. There is way more to it than you could ever imagine, plus, being by yourself all of the time can suck too. Over all, I would say that it's the best thing I have ever done for myself, but it can be very stressful. Like I said, there is a lot to it.

I guess what I am saying is... there are pros and cons to everything. The pros to your current job are that you get paid pretty good to sit around on you butt all day in a nice cool air conditioned bank. The cons are that it's very boring. My job has new and exciting things, but I work in 90+* temps everyday in the summer, and it gets mighty cold in the winter time.

You have to decide if you would rather work harder and be more stressed, and maybe not make much more money to do something you enjoy, or if you want to sit around and take it easy doing basically nothing.

With my job, it's something pretty much completely new every day. I think you should keep your fingers crossed on the beer rep job since that would be fun and involve meeting new people and doing different things everyday. From what you have said, it seems to me you have a good chance at that job. However, stick with your current job until that one (or another better one) comes along.

:cheers: Good Luck!
 
I just started a new job myself, pay is decent, I work nites though. Running presses is boring as shit, get them running, fill out paperwork, and depending on the press I have 30-45 minutes to sit around and do nothing. I will stay here though until something better comes along, not because I want to so much as I have to. The experience looks good, even though I am technically a temp, my boss already told me he will take my on as a permanent, and wants to teach me how to run all the machines in the plant. Would mean a pretty hefty pay increase, so if I can manage that I will do boring work for as long as they wanna pay me. The shitty work is all well and good since I get weekends off, decent pay, and the money gets put toward things that make me happy, unlike the job. Without the job, I can't have those things.

As far as becoming a beer rep, how do you manage that? Sounds like a sweet gig.
 
Like the other replies I have to agree stick it out until the better gig comes along. For the most part I think people really get to do what they want in life, but it takes the right mind set, some elbow grease, and thought to get everything you want. Neither of my jobs is perfect but they both pay very well, I work with fantastic people in a professional environment and for the most part have a riot doing the work. With my IT job I spend a lot of time trouble shooting systems and hardware, something I have always just had a natural ability to do. My archaeological job keeps me outside, in the dirt where I belong, and I get to spend my time discovering things from the past. It's kind of like troubleshooting because, I have to decypher past events in the sites I find and excavate. Actually this is my favorite job but not my fulltime paycheck. Like Team Willys said there are pro and cons to both, but I don't even consider the cons, they don't even begin to outway the pros.

Stick to your guns and keep pushing for what you want.

By the way just retrned from North Carolina and we go there every year.
 
wow this thread has actually helped me out a lot im workin basically as a janitor at a night club pay is great but like with the others i cant stand it so i applied for another job and have now decided that if i get the other job i will continue to work at the club along with the other job until school starts back up then ill have to choose which is better for me
 
In this economy I would sit tight and look while I was working. I assume you have no family to support. If wife and or kids are envolved I would say you definately need to stick it out till you find better. But remember the grass is not always greener on the other side. :(
 
didnt you post an "help i need work" post about 3 months ago?
Now you got a job, and you re complaining..
You wanna make a lot of money.. go into computer consulting
you want a stable job with crap pay.. stay where you are at.
you want a good job with a good company with good pay? keep dreaming or stand in line behind me!

mark
 
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