Re: NAC Lots-O- Posts Thread-Part Deux
one is really a dude.
and the other is his mom...
so you can see where the problem is...:yelclap::shhh::loveu:
(all in good fun man)
:roflmao: Damnit, I hate replies like that... even though I had a gut feeling something like that was coming... I sitll have nothing to say to it :banghead::laugh:
One I already have a bit of a history (the one who came over when I was working on the bike). She very well may be into me, except she seems a bit iffy.. sometimes she seems really into me, other times not so much. We haven't talked in a couple months or so it seems, and I got a message at 2AM the other day after she was out with friends having [a few] drinks (I was long since asleep). That could mean any number of things with her.
The main 'issue' with her is that a few years back she mentioned that she just wants to find someone to help her pay off college bills but doesn't expect anything to last. I think that was just because her parents had issues and she seems better/more confident now (doesn't say shit like that anymore). Don't get me wrong, I have no interest in settling down at the moment by any means, not yet... but that comment made me wonder if she would just use me for the $$ and leave. I don't think so, but I have been used for the $$ before; not doing that again. I would just rather not get involved in a situation like that.
Plus the other issue is that I had her out visiting while I was at college.. We were playing some form of drinking game (card game) and she was that girl who made a big deal out of someone not following every rule to the note... had a couple friends mention after the fact that she needed to chill out, so you can probably figure a bit of her personality out from that. Again, she may have relaxed a bit since that time (been a couple years)..
The other is much simpler to describe... I just think may end up being overly clingy. She's real nice, but I think that if it got anywhere near "serious" with her it could be bad if something took a turn for the worse later on. Also been with a girl like that, don't want that again per say. This one may also have changed lately, so I have to see.
Long story short, I am working to get in touch with both of them again. Dinner/bars/etc. They both fell out of communication with each other so it's not like they will both be discussing the fact that they hung out with me on alternating nights. :laugh: Not like I would ever try to have 2 girls at the same time, but I don't want to give either of them the wrong idea. Even better thing is they both have the same name so I don't have to worry about getting them confused

My other option is to wait for a few more months until friends come back from college in May.