What I did - bent a carriage bolt. However, not as strong as you could get... if you can cancel the stealership order, get two of J324 0023 (MOPAR part number) - here is one seller, very reasonable price:
http://funjeepsparts.com/webstore/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=12_128&products_id=8639 $1.92 - I think this may even be cheaper than a carriage bolt at home depot!
I am pretty sure the bolts are 3/8-UNC (3/8-16) so you can then go to Home Depot and get two stainless steel nylock nuts (nylocks or loktite ABSOLUTELY REQUIRED for a gas tank hangar) and two stainless steel washers. Make sure your hangar straps are not rusted at the middle and make sure you put the rubber sheaths back on them else they will wear a hole in the new tank + skidplate.
Speaking of which, you can leave the skidplate off probably... all it does is hold a bunch of gunk and promote rust, as well as hiding dents by popping back out. You'll probably want a good offroading skidplate anyways.
EDIT: getting the fuel pump connector undone can be interesting. You have to push a tiny little red latch tab, slide the red latch out, then pry up on the latch it holds down (yes, that is a tab latching a latch in to keep a latch down) and gradually wiggle the connector apart. Mine had 12 years worth of road dirt in it and took me a while to disconnect.
EDIT EDIT: wow, the original poster has long since solved his problem. Ah well, at least anyone who searches will find the info now... SonicCougar, good luck getting that fuel pump out. The plastic retaining ring and top-loading pump + gasket in those is a royal pain, I'd strongly suggest buying a new locking ring from Quadratec, it's part number 5200 5389 (MOPAR, QT's is 51306.120) and costs ten bucks. Then you can just chop the old one instead of trying to unscrew it from the gasket it's stuck to. RockAuto has a tool that can be used to tighten the new one easily.