I know magimerlin drew it that way, but I don't really understand why. 85 and 86 are basically your low voltage switch. If 85 is grounded and you put power to 86, then it will close the relay and run the high voltage power from 30 over to 87.
I wired my fan this way and I just wired my headlights the same way, but with 2 separate relays.
Did you wire yours similar to magimerlin's schematic? Is it working?