I will freely admit i didn't read through all 5 pages, mainly because i haven't had quite enough adderall and coffee to cross out the egg nog and bloody marys from this morning.
Being in Texas my entire life, I think it's safe to say i see my fair share of racism and prejudice on a daily basis, and I will admit that I am not always on the innocent end of this. But when i see a "Rebel" flag on a car or truck, the thought "racist" does not even ENTER my mind. I think redneck, good ol' boy, or something along those lines. But, as with everything else in this world that certain members of certain groups/races/ethnicities might pull the race card on, it all lies on the perception of the individual viewing the rebel flag.
As my hippy college roommate always told me, "Reality is based on perception."
If YOU don't see a problem with it, then there isn't. If someone else DOES see a problem with it, then so be it. If they call you out on it, say your peace and leave it alone.
Everything you do on a daily basis is going to piss SOMEONE off. Unfortunately, that's the world we live in. I have seen people get more pissed off at obama/mccain/palin/bush/clinton/etc....stickers than i have ever seen be offended by a rebel flag. I've also seen more people make a big stink over Christmas and all its accoutrement i.e. nativity scene, CHRISTMAS (not holiday) trees, crosses, etc. than i have seen over-exaggerate the real meaning of a rebel flag.
Bottom line, to me it means redneck, and PROBABLY pretty ignorant. (please take note of the emphasis i put on "probably") But then again, I'm a Protestant Irish/German bred Texan. Someone with more ethnic descent might think differently. But once again, that brings us back to the perception and reality theory.
/rant off.