Re: The Colorado BS thread
Man, what a fawked up week. Family disagreements over property/will issues, dirty/filthy/gross condo to deal with, stuff piled up in my house to have to deal with, had to rent a storage unit (father in law/family couldn't make up their damn minds on if it was morally right to leave the condo in such bad shape for the bank..... seriously.)
We went from "screw it, leave it as is and walk away" to "It's not right to leave it like this, it's not respectful". Spent Weds/Thurs/Fri there wearing gloves picking up grossness and going through tons of trash. I'd forgotten that 5 years ago, she had a fire in the kitchen. A clean up service totally cleaned out her place, gutted the kitchen, put in all new cabinets, appliances and while they were at it, the bathroom got a remodel and the whole place got painted/carpeted...... but you'd never have known it..... she destroyed the place in 5 years and it looked like 20 years worth of yuk.
To appease the family, I've taken on the task of selling what was valuable on Craigslist. At least the family recognized the crap (literally) we were dealing with and agreed that the valuables should be sold, we keep 50% and the rest dispersed among those in the will.
She did have some pretty nice things buried under all that crap. Spent alot of money on Bose soundwave stuff for every room, collectibles, coins, etc. A lift-assist recliner that is only a year or two old.
The church did step up and sent 8 ladies with SUV's to haul off all of the craft/needle point stuff she had piled up. I'm not kidding when I say that they completely filled all 8 SUV's - to the point that only the driver's seat was available. That was Wednesday. Thursday we'd found more and filled 3 more SUV's. They came back later Thursday to haul off all her clothing, books, kitchenware, and lots of other stuff. Said they'd do a garage sale and give the proceeds to the church....... more power to 'em.
Furniture has been the biggest pain. Charities like Habitat for Humanity and Veteran's Associations are more than willing to come get it...... as long as it's out of the house and somewhere a truck can get to it. We couldn't find any place willing to enter the house..... so most of the big stuff is staying.
We took a break from it Saturday. Father in law visited friends and I caught up on projects. Today he went back to clean out what was left...... and of course, brought it all to my place....... ugh.
Definitely alot learned from this. Wills need to be detailed, and updated often...... and we need to throw away a bunch of crap of our own.....:looney: