Sorry man. There is no way to TUNE coil spring/leaf spung suspensions.
You have a few choices:
1. Coil Spring Rate/lift height
2. Shock choice
There's no actual TUNING possible unfortunately. You can buy an adjustable shock, but that just changes the compression damping of the shock. It's not tuning the suspension.
That's about it.
All Lift Leafs in the rear are going to be VERY STIFF. An Add A Leaf will be a little softer.
There's no "tuning" whatsoever. Just choices.
Cheap shocks are SOFT = good On road ride, poor offroad damping.
Expensive offroad shocks = Stiff On Road ride, good offroad damping.
The only way to have a "tunable" suspension is to custom build a 3/4 link or a 4/4 link Front & Rear and run fully tunable coilover shocks. But, even having this set up... doesn't mean ANYoNE can tune the suspension. It takes a trained professional to not only BUILD the custom suspensiin, but more impoortantly, Setting it up to function properly based on vehicle weight, type of useage, driver preference. It takes a professional to build the shocks with proper spring weights, valving & gas charging.... and to further dial in the settings.
Suspension is one of the most complicated parts of any vehicle.