i am currently doing a close to stock rebuild on my 4.0
i had to spend about 1500 at my machinist
thats including; valve job, head milled, block decked+bored.030 over and boiled clean, cam+lifters, pistons, rings, crank cut.10, all bearings(installed cam bearings), new head bolts, and a full fel-pro gasket kit.
not sure if thats a lot, dont really have another shop to compare too.