fubar XJ said:
If you can't swing it, then you either continue renting or drop your standards and buy a condo. Many people, first-time home buyers in particular, are doing this. Condos on average are $100K+ cheaper than houses in many areas. You can even get an enclosed garage in most of them, but it's akin to apartment living. The best compromise IMO would be a townhouse, basically like a complex of duplexes. You only have one shared wall, have a small yard out back, usually a 2 car garage.
I've lived in a townhouse. I flatly refuse to live in a condo - you pay an exorbitant amount of money to own what is essentially an apartment, and then pay an extra, never-ending monthly fee to give someone else the privilege of telling you what to do. I flatly refuse to live in a planned community as well - same reason. HOAs are right out, and should be flatly illegal. I am perfectly capable of maintaining my house and grounds, but I'd like to allow some individuality, because I'm tired of seeing the "everyone looks alike" thing. If I wanted that, I'd still be in the Air Force, and still living in Base Housing.
However, how'd this turn into a personal inability to purchase property? My original question was why did property values skyrocket ahead of inflation and COLA to salaries? Again, the property didn't intrinsically increase in value, and we didn't have that great a population explosion. If this is simply due to "the going trend," it's small wonder I'm no slave to fashion (of whatever sort.)
I'd like to unass CA, but we're still stuck here for the moment. As long as my MIL is still kicking (barely) and no-one in her family will deign to help, we have to bear all the incidental costs and the basic costs of the mechanics of keeping her alive (especially the three dollars per gallon for all the doctor's appointments, pharmacy runs, assorted medical tests, ...) I've been out here for 17-1/2 years now, and I don't like it. My wife grew up out here - and she can't stand it anymore. And, neither one of us wants to "take California with us" - we're leaving it, and we plan to leave it behind (too many people are tying to "take California with them" - one wonders why they left in the first place?)
Make more money? I'm trying - that's what WiP is all about. If I didn't keep getting clobbered with incidentals, I'd get going faster. I'm also trying to get another disability claim pushed through from a roads incident in 2005 - because I've yet to find a job that will take working hours of "whenever you can make it in," and I can't get up in the morning anymore (if I have to shake out before 1000 two days in a row, I'm useless for the entire third day. My sleep hours are both strange and irregular, due to brain trauma. Don't even get me started on weather changes...) That's why I'm trying to write books - because that's a job I can do "if and when" for myself. If I weren't constantly distracted by the mechanics of keeping a chronically ill elderly person alive, I'd probably make more progress.
We've not been able to save up a down payment - so we'd get murdered with a mortgage payment.
Smaller house? As long as my MIL is still with us, we need enough room for her and all her crap - and simply having "room" isn't enough. I also have to make sure that, should we need to call the fire department or an ambulance (again!) that they can get a gurney to wherever she is likely to be - so that's also limiting (since floor plans also have to be strongly considered.) Even if we don't need EMT's, I have to make sure there's enough space around her so I can pick her up if she should fall (again.)
Farther out of town? I already run her enough for all the medical crap - and she's finally got doctors she likes. She won't let me transfer her again - so we have to stay close to them (pulmonologist, gastroenterologist, orthopaedist, cardiologist, urologist, audiologist, ...) At $3+ per gallon - it becomes a
very close offset. Move out of town to save rent, and it gets taken up in fuel. Move in town to save fuel, and it gets taken up in rent. I've checked - we can't win this one.
Reduce expenses? We've already cut what we can, when we can, and deduct as much as we can at the end of the year (you should see our tax return!)
Anyhow, my original question still stands. You're dodging the issue - why did "property values" (a fiction that binds as reality) go up so damn much?