Inch-pound wrenches are typically used for fasteners that don't need a lot of retention force (like valve cover gaskets, where you can crush the gasket out of the join.)
For larger values, you can use a foot-pound torque wrench - 1 foot-pound = 12 inch-pounds, as you probably already figured.
Finding a torque wrench (usually more of a screwdriver or spinner handle) calibrated in inch-pounds take a little work, but I'd look into MSC Direct, Small Parts, Inc., or a similar outfit for that. If you aren't having any luck, look for a foot-pound torque wrench marked with small values and use that. I've got a small 3/8" drive torque wrench that goes down to about 5 foot-pounds that works for nearly everything small that I work with. If I'm really worried, I've got a couple "palm" ratches that are about 2" across that prevent overtorquing.
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