EXACTLY!!!! not to sound like an ass, but if I want something (within reason) I usually just buy it myself. Having extended/split familes and all the driving that we have to do and no one ever drives to our place..I get get sick of the shit. Last I checked the highways ran both ways..at least they do for us since we are always the ones traveling. The whole "we need to get the step nephews grilfirends cousin sisters left handed lesian eskimo midgets mother" a present so they dont think badly of us..piss on that, let them think what they want..I could care less...if I did not have a child I was raising and making a good impression upon, I would go off the handle on 90% of the family and get so piss wasted drunk I would barf intentionally on someone...probably a projectile vomiting spree that would cover most the people in the room.