If you are definitely going to take it to a shop, there is no point in going through further diagnostics. I would add a couple of things:
Are you sure there is a relay associated with the stalk wiring? There is no relay for headlights or tail lights as such but I'm not sure what you are referring to.
The headlight switch is not that difficult to remove if you have more or less "average" hands. Pull the knob all the way out to the On position. Find the retainer button on the flat side of the switch and press the button to release the knob. Unscrew the nut from the dash side and remove the switch. Unplug the connector.
The rheostat does not control the tail lights to start with. Also, when it is in the brightest position for interior lights (instrument panel, dome etc.), the rheostat wiper arm is not controlling anything, so if the dome lights are on, the rheostat is not the likely culprit.
The headlight switch is not that expensive and I would just replace it once you have it out rather than try to test it. It should be available at most parts outlets. I went through this exercise once with my '85. My problem was a partially melted connector that was readily apparent after I got the switch out.
And as djgrayxj says, disconnect the battery......
Anyway, if you are going to a shop this is all moot. Let us know.