You plugged into the temp sensor connector for the overhead console, thats whats up in the nose.
The only way to use the stock foglight setup is to get the fog light wiring harness which comes with relays, switch, new panel and directions.
www.jeepsareus.com sells them, you just need the kit not the lights.
Install the interior portion of the kit, once thats done you will have ONE yellow wire that you run thru the firewall to up near the battery. That wire operates the Hella relay, use the hella wires for the lights themselve, they are heavier gauge than the stock wires that come in that kit.
Just for clarification, a relay is nothing more than a remotely operated switch, it is nothing more except the hella relay has a fuse built into it which makes them convienent to use and keeps from having a 10a fuse hanging around somwhere so don't let the relay freak you out, thats all it is, a switch that is operated by a mechanical switch on the dashboard..