The XJ is no longer my DD, but I would have no problems driving it every day, it rides x10 better then it did with the short arms when i did DD it!
I have only had deathwobble once with it after the long arms, and that was yesterday, i hit a very large pothole(PA potholes will eat a 35in tire for lunch) and even then it wasn't as bad as I had when i first lifted it!!
I drove the Jeep on the highway about 200 miles the weekend after i finished the project and it handled as good or better then it did when it was stock!! I dont have any steering issues, it steers x500 better now then it did with the stock steering at 6in lift(my sabalizer was shot which didn't help).
Over all I couldn't be happier with the way the Jeep rides, i was prepared to hate the on road driving with all the work i did, but with the Long Arms and the diffrent steering I love driving it to work every once and while(the rear spool makes it alittle interesting though)