Yes, it's a good idea to change the timing as a set (3-piece.) As I recall, the crank sprocket and chain didn't change - just the cam sprocket - but there's no sense in doing a partial fix, since you're there anyhow.
Any aftermarket brand should not be a problem - I favour TRW, but you can use pretty much anything.
Where? Follow the advice I'm always giving - find a good local parts house (small store or small chain - NOT Kragen, AutoBone, or anything like that,) and give them all your high-dollar business. It's better for local businesses, and you'll find your prices start to get better over time as well (I now get "jobber-minus" at my local - which is what the shops pay, less 5%. I also get counter catalogues for free, since each catalogue they give me is money in the bank for them anyhow.)
I'll still get my fluids and solvents at big chain stores, since they have better prices (and I go through enough of the stuff. I'm thinking of starting to buy bulk,) but I will NOT go to Kragens or AutoZone for parts - I get better parts and better prices elsewhere.
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