I am stuck on this seal do not know how it goes here are pics
could i just go to a parts store and get the drivers side seal and put it on the passenger side....it looks like the same dia.
Both go next to the carrier, it will have to be pulled to put in.
The one on the left in http://xj.no-ip.org/1/temp/seal1.jpg goes on the drivers side. It is what the standard seals look like. The cone (?) part of the seals goes outward to help guide the shaft through.
The other appears to be the same thing that came with the Warn kit. There isn't a part to guide the axle through so you will have to be carful when putting the shaft in.