people don't always run hydro assist on the tie rod. it works if you run it on the drag link similar to how the stock steering stabilizer is mounted.
in order to do that though you need to seriously beef your track bar mount to handle all that stress.
but if you set up the hydro assist on the tie-rod, as long as you mount the ram so that it is in a straight line from knuckle to knuckle regardless of the shape of the tie-rod it will travel just fine. that is the best way since the ram will be transferring that force against the axle tube and not the track bar or steering box.
and as far as the TRE's getting forces outside their design: a properly set-up hydro assist system will have the ram and the steering box working in tandem keeping everything in working order.
now I get that it would be much easier to run a knuckle to knuckle tie rod and mount a ram to it, but then you wouldn't be nearly as cool
if you do end up going through TRE's because of some geometry issues you can easily convert the system to 1ton TRE's or Heims.