OK, this is what I'd do. And yes, I've been there. Mine was with fixed roller rockers. They take a much shorter push rod.
I'd pull or loosen the spark plugs. Turn the motor with a breaker bar to such. I have heard you can turn by the power steering pulley. If not, then Clockwise on the crankshaft bolt. (others please correct me if that is not correct). I put some oil on the threads of the #1 spark plug. There should be a timing mark on your harmonic balancer. When that nears the TDC mark on the timing cover, you should hear some air passing. Sort of a swoosh. I think I backed out 1/2 to 1 turn of finger tight on the spark plug. That is your compression stroke. Alight the mark on the harmonic balancer with the mark on the Front timing chain cover. Check your Distributor, that the rotor is in the same angle as the #1 spark plug wire terminal. If OK, then:
You will need to take off the Valve cover. Yeah, what fun. Look at the rocker arm for the #1 cylinder. They should be 'horizontal'. Both about the same. So, at compression. Try and turn the push rods. If tight, then your push rods might be to long. The lifters might still be pumped up with oil. If you rotate the crack twice, and stop at a point where the valves are open. Stop and let the lifters bleed down. Could do this earlier actually. With the lifters bleed down and back at TDC, you should be able to push down a bit on the rocker arms. If not, again, probably to long push rods.
OK, what could have caused this. First is your replaced the head. We don't know how much they took off the face of the head. The last few heads I had down, it was about 0.014. Also, that goes for the deck of the engine block. Which I assume you did not take off any there. The next is the head gasket. I think stock is 0.050. They do make 0.042. Actually Cometic will make just about anything. I think 0.027 and up to 0.070. ??? So, say you used a 0.042 and the head was shaved 0.014, there's 0.022.
Now push rods. They do come in different lengths. In stock, I see 9.639 and 9.650. I think there is 0.080 'bleed' distance in a hydraulic lifter. (again, correct me if I'm wrong). So, there might be an issue with new lifters or not.
OK, back to the top at the rocker arms. Loosen if they are tight. I think there are three bolts up there. Try to keep them even tightening them down. Or loosen them in say 1/4 turns. See if that allows the rocker(s) to rotate and you can feel the spring in the lifter. If you tighten them down from where you can just move the push rod up and down no more, then say 1/4 to 1/2 turn on the bolts. The push rod should be able to turn or twist in assembled state. If the rock arm bolts can be turned to tighten, count the turns. I forget what the threads are. 1 divided by the threads. That is the depth of one turn. So, that might tell you how long of a pushrod you'd need.
Hopefully, clearer than mud.