Not sure what year you have but here is some stuff I have done.
I have an 89 xj which I removed the clutch fan and replaced it with a Taurus fan. I still have the oem fan as well with no mods to it. I used an adjustable Derele temp controller (SUMMIT) wired to an 85 amp reley and seperate fuse and power. I also used the thermostat housing from an HO since it is already set up for a threaded temp sensor port to which I installed the sensor from the Derele kit. The kit also includes a wire to connect to your A/C so it will come on when it is activated. The Taurus fan pulls 85 amps so you will want to give it a dedicated power supply. I adjusted the fan-on setting to turn on at 200 (factory fan comes on at 210). It took a few miles and some off roading to get the ON setting where I wanted it. The cool thing with this is I can change it when ever needed.
The factory temp to go from open/closed loop is 195. If you do not let the temp achieve this you will not allow the O2 sensor to kick in.
I have been running this setup for about a year now and love it.
Hope that helps.