Too bad this thread didn't start a month ago -- it would have saved me some work. I had looked at the posts regarding replacement motor mounts and Brown Dog was universally applauded. There were a few posts regarding vibration issues, but they seemed to be limited to the poly mounts, so I ordered and installed the rubber ones.
Today, after 327 miles of use, I removed the Brown Dog rubber (not poly) motor mounts from my 1997 XJ and replaced them with OEM-style mounts. The BDs were just too harsh for me. I use the Jeep for going to interesting areas, which often involves dirt roads but not any really rough stuff. I like Saline Valley and Silver Canyon and am not much interested in bashing things to pieces like I would if I tried the Rubicon or Ershim-Dusy.
I'm glad you like the NAPA mounts (i manage a NAPA store in socal) but I hate to break it to you... just about all parts store mounts are made by a company called Anchor Mounts Inc.
I saw that Rock Auto had OEM-style mounts made by Anchor and by DEA Products. Not knowing which to order, I ordered one of each, figuring I would put whichever looked best on the driver's side, and the other on the passenger side.
The Anchor was made in Korea and looked best, so I installed it on the driver's side. However, the bushing isn't quite long enough so even with the through bolt tightened down to the specified 48 ft-lb, there is a 0.020" gap between the bushing and the ears of the bracket. That bothers me because it means the bushing can rattle on the bolt. I haven't driven it yet because the Jeep is in pieces in the driveway and it's raining now, so I don't know how much of an issue that will be.
The DEA was made in China and looked quite good, but after I put it in and dropped the motor down on it, that is when I discovered that they used a different thread pitch on the mounting stud. If they had included the matching nut, this would have been fine, but they did not so I had to jack up the engine again and put in the original OEM passenger side mount, which still looked OK.
I'm not enthusiastic about the Anchor because it doesn't fit tightly, and am even less so about the DEA because it requires non-OEM fasteners.
The Brown Dog motor mounts are well-made and I'm sure I would never break one. The after-purchase support is immediate. I followed all the directions about how to properly install them, and tightened the through bolts and then backed off so the washer could be spun. However the mounts don't do enough vibration damping for my tastes and use.