Hey ThatGuy, I've got 11 years and counting as an active Infantryman in the Army. I am slated as Indefinite, which means I will do at last 20 years, if I have anything to say about it.
I originally joined up because I was part of the wrong crowd, and had no where else to go. I figured the college money looked good, but who am I kidding? I hated school- when I was there. Not that I was raised wrong, I knew what I was doing (drugs, no job)- I was just selfish.
I reenlisted because I didn't have a plan when my first term was up and I haven't looked back. My two deployments to Iraq have been very profound experiences for me. There are men among the ranks who have 3 and 4 deployments under their belts. I know I got a few more in me.
Going active you will have the privilige of meeting, living with, and fighting side-by-side with men from all walks of life. Guys that you would never have hung out with in high school, may even have turned your nose down at them in the cafeteria. Some of those guys can be the best dudes to party with in your unit, and as soon as you hit the ground overseas, they can do some of the most selfless and heroic things you have ever experienced. Some of these guys will be lifelong friends of mine. Their children will know my children.
I had to leave my former life behind, sure. But the life I have made in the Army has been full of some of the most richest experiences imaginable. I have shared fresh cooked meals with Kurdish soldiers while they sang songs from their homeland, fought next to these brave men as they battled for a country whose dictator gassed them mercilessly, and shared stories of home, as only professional fighting men who miss their wives and children do. I have lost close friends to the enemy, but who can ever say anything bad about them? They are eternal heroes now. I have seen the depth of human hatred as well as compassion, and I am better for seeing both.
Is it tough? Does it suck? Yes. Being back in garrison (not deployed) means there are menial tasks to be performed daily. What the recruiter does not tell you is you will become an expert at picking up trash and mopping, and yardwork and a bunch of other junk. To me the good times outweigh the lame shit. But know that as bad as it gets over there, you are surrounded by brothers who are going through the same agony, grief, fear, and lonliness that you are. These emotions and people will shape your experiences and no one will ever be able to take that away from you.
For a while I thought I was protecting my country. In a round about way, yes I am. I PROJECT freedom and Democracry and spread our way of life, so that others may enjoy the freedoms we have and it keeps those XXXXing Jackals from my doorstep. All men are created equal right?
Oh yeah, TheChief86, I do this all so you don't have to. I do it so you can say what you want, when you want, where you want. I do it so Green Day, the Dixie Chicks, and System of a Down can sing about how XXXXed up my country is without having their heads suddenly removed from their bodies and their families murdered in the middle of the night. Just pop the collar on your pastel polo shirt, crack open a beer and go XXXX some hot college girl while me and my boys take care of business.
I'll never hold it against anyone for not serving, just maybe for talking out their neck without any real idea of what it's about.