I am a member, I stay fairly active in forums, check atleast once a day, whether it be on my phone or from the laptop at the house.
You will have to post up, and come out to get to know the group. Ive met a few of the 4x4 Everyone members, but actually only joined because the kid I sponsor wanted to join, kind of forced me to, but since joining Im glad I did because its a good group.
In the 4x4 Everyone forums, the thread is called Gearing. Just check it out, I recently posted, Im not sure if they canceled it or not as there hasn't been any talk of it for the last few days.
What kind of weird crap do you mean? PM me if you would rather.