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- NE Indiana
Let cry on here when your getting your second divorce just like your old man.
K "remember to tell me I was right" man
Agreed. My wife and I did the same thing. The secret to not getting divorced is not living together first, it is knowing 100% who you are with before thinking about marriage. May be old fashioned and not something everyone here will agree with, but it's what we did and 8 years later we are happy as the day we walked down the aisle; 3 kids and all. Props to you TH, seems we share similar ideals. Like I said, not going to put it down, just not something I was raised to do. Divorce is the same way; not going to look down on those that have, just not something I will do.
I think anyone getting married should live together. Experience the stress of bills, being around eachother 24/7 good bad and ugly. Also I see nothing wrong with having a child put of wedlock. Another stresser and creates a whole new love between you. I will have been with Alexis 6Jean years prior to marriage. Like I said I'm only doing this shit once.
Obviously there are two schools of thought on this. To each his own on what you decided to do. TH posted that he wasn't going to do it, I don't think its fair to tell him that he should if he doesn't believe that way. Not everyone believes what you do in that regard. I happen to disagree with your thoughts on a child out of wedlock...but I'm not going to scorn you over it.
I'm also only going to get married once.
Society rewards people for having kids out of wedlock and make divorce pretty easy. It would've been cheaper to have a child out of wedlock than to do what I believe is right and have a child when you are married.
whether it's against the rules or not, it pisses people off and gets em soured on you before they even meet you... I suggest treading carefully till you've wheeled and/or been to a campfire with the crew, by then they'll have a few things to make fun of you for and you will probably have a few things to jab about also. Goes a bit better.
pot...kettle...
This thread brings the suck.
man you got that right...glad I've been off wheeling for the last two weeks.
mac 'slept 8 of 11 nights in the trailer' gyvr