if you aren't attached to the idea of a jeep, and the ease of repair on a jeep, get a subie. for the type of wheeling i've seen you do, you can do that in a subie, and save gas, and have a comfy DD. i took my subaru to short mountain a couple times, and i couldn't do all the same stuff i could do in the xj, but for a compact car, i must say i was impressed! i do say you should get a 5spd, for the durability, and the fun factor. i regret selling my subaru, and given the opportunity, i'd buy another in a heartbeat. they do make lift kits for them, and some of the foresters and outbacks came with a lockout center diff and low range. it isn't common, but it was an option. in costa rica, i saw a sick forester with lowrange and enough lift to clear 31's without trimming.