Last word - Offering up your PMs wasn't meant to discredit you. But more to confirm my interpretation of your PMs.
And I didn't call "dibs". I said I would buy what you were selling at the price you were asking. You said okay. I said I would meet you off the 91 at Lemon. You said okay. You said you would call me at 8 pm when you were on your way home. I said okay. Sounds like a "sale" to me. It wasn't like this was a Craigslist transaction gone bad. This all took place in the same day. Plus we know each other.
You sent me a PM telling me it was sold AFTER I sent you a text saying it was getting late and that I would pick the bumper up this weekend. I figured you were late leaving Max's. If it had sold earlier, it would've been nice to know that. That's what I'm upset about most. At my age, I get cranky when I get to bed late.
But like you said, it's done. Luckily, no one's gonna read this thread.