I did basically the same thing. 6x2 1/4 wall box tubing bumper, mounts immediately in front of the bumper mounting tabs on the front of the uniframe using 1/4" plate brackets that reach to the rearmost stock recovery hook mounting hole and also incorporate the steering box bolts, 1" thick recovery points that go straight through the bumper beam and have the 1/4" plate brackets rosette welded to them.
Had to do what skinnyridge did and space the bottom face of the box tube down a bit so the winch feet would fit in. You don't want to just cut notches in the bottom face because it really weakens the structure, just a heads up.
Also, since the spacer for my durango steering box was made a little taller than it should have been (fabbed it up myself with 1/4 plate and 3/16 plate years ago... I really should redo it properly, I erred on the side of making it too tall instead of too short at the time) I did have to flap wheel the freespool lever knob a lot and the side of the steering box a little bit. With proper planning it should be fine without doing that.
Things I still need to do: mount the solenoid box properly (I moved it up under the hood to prevent it getting swamped/corroded) and add a UHMW/Delrin and steel plate skidplate for the electrical terminals on the winch motor so they don't get shredded by a rock.
I spaced those spots down for the winch feet/endplates by welding 3/8" thick pucks to each side of the gap (heavily beveled edges and welded the whole perimeter) and then welding sections of 1/4 wall box tube over them, again around the whole perimeter. Not sure it's the strongest, but I've used the winch with no issues and no sign of bending or weld cracking and it kept clearance as high as possible in as many spots as possible so I'm happy with it.
That last pic really shows how vulnerable the winch wiring is, I need to either clock the motor housing up or make an insulating plate and skid for that pretty badly.
The recovery points are 1" thick plate, 6 or 7" wide, cut into 4" lengths each used vertically. 1" holes (I use 1" pin D-shackles) and the diagonal corners are 1" per short side or so. If I did it again I'd use 1x9 or 1x10 plate so I could get another few 1.5" diameter holes through the 1/4" plate frame brackets for more rosette welds, but the 1" plate captures the two frontmost bumper mount bolts and has a couple decent rosettes through the 1/4" and a good solid perimeter weld around it too, and hasn't shown any signs of failure. I'd also angle the end wings in and up to make it look more like SkinnyRidge's bumper, it looks pretty hillrod with just a straight bumper crossbeam how I have it now but I don't feel like messing with it.
One of the benefits of using rectangular tube instead of C channel is that the tip of a high lift fits perfectly inside the end of the bumper tubing, makes a great jacking point, no chance of it sliding out. That was accidental, I was in a hurry and didn't have time to cap the ends of the tube before my first wheeling run with the bumper and after using it as a high lift jacking point I doubt I ever will. Might cap it say 4-5" back into the tube just to keep nasty shit out of the inside of the tubing, but that really depends on if I give enough of a damn to get the welding torch that far into there. Probably not.
edit: oh yeah, move your fairlead mounting position down from where I have it by several inches, you want the aperture for the rope to pass through to be centered at the average diameter of the rope when it's wound on the drum. Mine's kinda high up and it makes the winch work harder to drag the rope over the bottom edge of the fairlead while winching. Again, it works, but it isn't ideal and I'd do that differently if I was going to build another. Looking at it now, I'd need to move it down about an inch to an inch and a half, using a piece of 2" box tube like robz95xj instead of the bits of plate to get around the winch feet would kill two birds with one stone, though it'd reduce approach angle more. You win some you lose some.