Divorce

Prowler said:
Dude ok so thats your messed up situation...Here is mine.
I really like this girl who is my best friend, (dang) and so while I'm doing my best to figure out if she likes me the same her cousin freaking goes crazy over me and now she is trying to hook me up with her cousin. And her cousin is hot and all but dang it, I want her. Now that puts me in a situation. Basicaly if I don't go out with her cousin I may not ever have a chance with her and then I'm left on the shore with no fish. Now if I do go out with her cousin then I am for sure never going to be able to have the same feelings for her again.
Now thats messed up if you ask me.

-Sorry for your situation though dude.
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I think you should share one or both of them with this guy. He'd feel better:wave:
 
it's your choice,but for me cheating is unforgiveable offense. everytime she comes home late from somewhere,you are going to wonder if she has been with somebody else or what's going on. cut your losses and get out now before it's too late and kids are involved if they aren't already. that's my thoughts,and that's what i did,only it happened to late for me,and three kids were invloved.:(
 
Her parents were on vacation at the time. Whats also kinda annoying is the night all this started the next day we were supposed to leave for Hot Springs. I had reserved a cabin for the weekend for us. And of course, they still charged me. And no I have never cheated on her. I hate cheaters and liars. She knew that. I never would have cheated. I guess I'm The only one who meant it when we said I Do.
 
Dude, Run like the wind! Close all joint accounts and credit cards. Change your address with the post office and get a PO box. NEVER talk to her without a tape recorder running and NEVER NEVER NEVER be alone with her. All she has to do is make some false claim about you threatening to kill her or saying you beat the crap out of her and the next thing you know you're being cornholed in the county jail and she's driving around in your Jeep with antdick and running up your credit cards.
She's a HO. Better you found out now instead of after 3 kids. Better to be by yourself for a few years and have some self respect than to let her come back and secretly hate yourself.
 
since were all gettin it off our chest,here's my deal.I was in an killer relatioship with a very hot young lady who loves jeeps.My ex wife calls and say's that she wants to be with me.After 5 years.So with the 2 boys in mind,I accept.So we move all of our things into her dads old home place.O did i mention she has remarried in that 5 years.Were gettin settled in for about 3 weeks and i catch her sending her husband naked pics of herself.:gonnablow That makes me mad.
 
Bradlybob said:
NEVER talk to her without a tape recorder running and NEVER NEVER NEVER be alone with her. All she has to do is make some false claim about you threatening to kill her or saying you beat the crap out of her and the next thing you know you're being cornholed in the county jail and she's driving around in your Jeep with antdick and running up your credit cards.
Better to be by yourself for a few years and have some self respect than to let her come back and secretly hate yourself.
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Truth. Pure, straight-up truth. You MUST have a chaperone at any and all further meetings with her. Not one of her friends, and if possible not your best friend in the world either. You don't want the guy who would bury the body for you as your only witness to your absolutely proper behavior in her presesnce. You need someone who can't be shown as willing to perjure themselves in court for you.

If you meet her and talk to her alone, or with a bad chaperone, all she has to do is say you threatened her, hit her, cheated on you, raped her; whatever. If that happens, it gets sticky. The absolute last thing you want is a friend who lies to make your side look better. Of course, this is all in preparation for a worst case scenario, but still.
 
OK, I know I am only 18 but rule of thumb here men; never trust women. They are very tricky, and they like to play mind games. Remember, the law takes their side. Moral of the horible school lesson...GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE!
 
Seriously Dude, in this day and age, if she is flaky enough to do this to you, she is flaky enough to do it without a rubber. Shes is taking your life in her hands.
Just my opinion, but I'm willing to give anybody one chance and she seems to have used hers up already.
My first wife couldn't seem to leave her X boyfriend alone. Once a mistake, twice a fool, three times an idiot. I kissed her goodbye one morning as she left for work and when she came home, her half of everything was in an envelope. I never talked to her again.
I closed the door of her X boyfriends 64 Chev, about five or six times with him half in and half out. Told him I'd never screwed his wife and fair was fair, I was gonna get some kind of enjoyment out of the whole situation.
 
8Mud said:
I closed the door of her X boyfriends 64 Chev, about five or six times with him half in and half out. Told him I'd never screwed his wife and fair was fair, I was gonna get some kind of enjoyment out of the whole situation.
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That reminds me of that part in the movie Forrest Gump where Jenny is getting hot and heavy with some dude in his car, and Forrest opens the door and gives him a good beating.
 
imthehink said:
Her parents were on vacation at the time. Whats also kinda annoying is the night all this started the next day we were supposed to leave for Hot Springs. I had reserved a cabin for the weekend for us. And of course, they still charged me. And no I have never cheated on her. I hate cheaters and liars. She knew that. I never would have cheated. I guess I'm The only one who meant it when we said I Do.
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You didn't go to hot springs and paid for it, man I woulda gone by myself and hooked up there. Maybe looked the area over for job prospects and never looked back. When I was in the navy my ex screwed around, 110 day patrol under the north atlantic and I come home to that crap. Then AFTERWARDS I find out thru our friends she'd been catting around for the last 3 patrols. I was outta there in 6 hours and never looked back when my divorce was finalized 30 days later. If I had not driven thru that noreaster from groton to where we lived in PA I never would have gotten home a day early and found out. With my current wife, we just celebrated our 25th and are looking forward to at least 25 more...

Oh, get a freaking blood test too.....man I'm glad I'm not single in this day and age. When I was single you only had to worry about a pissed off husband or boyfriend.
 
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99XJSPORT06 said:
Thats what i'd like to know....unless they were M.I.A. at the time...

Man what a bitch.....not trying to make you feel worse, but the fact she wouldn't let you have any friends on myspace that were girls should have been a huge red flag.....the fact she would have been jealous or what not of friends you had on the internet

Either way, sorry to hear whats happened man and I wish you the best.
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Maybe I'm just old, but I don't see any reason a married person should be on myspace at all. Don't bash. I know it's not a dating site... I just don't get it. If you're married, you've committed your life to something different than what the myspace site is offering...

JM2CW.
 
My curiosity overwhelms my good sense....but I gotta ask...how old is the formerly happy couple???
 
Take it from an old fart that has been there and done that.
RUN! RUN! RUN!
Your life WILL be better without her!:thumbup:
I know it may seem like the end of the world. It did to me 22 years ago!
Eight years ago I Finally met the right one. (Would not have happened if I would have still been stapped the Slut)

Funny thing is, My Ex just did the same damn thing to the Guy I caught her on the couch with. Myspace boyfriend and everything. Now that is Funny!

C.Y.A. and get away from that poison in a womans body.
 
Man, hopefully you don't take her back. You sound too calm about it like you're willing to 'try again' with her. Remember, once a HO always a HO. Be very thankful that you didn't have children with this woman which would preclude you from walking out of her life for good.

While it sucks to find out this way at least you now know. Make copies of her inbox/sent items, like others said record each phone converation and always have someone with you when you deal with her or do it in a public place.

A guy who works for me had a very similiar situation. He and I had been traveling for work and we ended up fling home a 1/2 day early. I dropped him off at home and hadn't gotten 5 miles from his house when he called me to come to back that he needed help and hung-up. Thinking he locked himself out or somethin I turn around and pull in his driveway. He comes out the front door, white faced - hands over his head and ANGRY. I ask what's up and he said his wife (Cary) was in bed with their neighbor. He tells me to follow him in the house and stay cause he already pulled a knife out of the butcher block found himself standing in the hallway with it and was seconds away from the gutting the guy. Said he didn't even remember grabbing the knife. He's a big-o boy too, the neighbor guy was this puny little dude who wouldn't come out of the bedroom.

Walked in and there's Cary standing in the hallway holding her shirt in front of her with absolutely no clothes on screaming 'No, No, No' at the top of her lungs. Didn't even notice me standing 5 feet in front her she was so freaked out she was caught. My guy told me to go in and get the asshat that was still hiding in the bedroom. I walked in and the guy was dressed and was ready to puke on the floor. I told him that he is going to walk out of the room and go out the back door. He kept mumbling that they were drunk and didn't mean for it to happen. I told him to shut his mouth, look at the floor and walk out, go home and lock his door and to not answer it if my guy came over to 'talk'.

My guy kicked his wife out with just a shirt and jeans, her car keys and purse.

Long story short later that day she went to police to file an emergency protective order saying he hit her and the cops came and got my guys gun collection and served the EPO. I was called in the next day to go down to the courthouse to give my version. It was a full year before they returned about 5K worth of firearms.
 
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