Think the relay is in the tailgate? I´d guess a corroded connector or bad ground could be the culprit.
But what I´ve found, on more than a few occasions, is that the grease inside the wiper motor, has turned to the consistancy of modeling clay, after 14 years. Turn the switch on, and help the wiper along a little by hand, don´t force it much, a steady pressue on the wiper arm. If you can feel it trying to work, it´s likely that the motor needs to be cleaned out (a spray can of brake cleaner works well) and add some new grease. Don´t try removing the gears, I´ve done it a pain. There is a park contact/switch under the large gear, that is easy to damage (ask me how I know this). If your park contacts burn up, a little rewiring, will let you park it with the wiper switch.