e codes and a upgraded harness was an awesome mod for me. I got the 55/100 bulbs so my brights were very bright and I didn't get anymore unnecessary attention
and please PLEASE ditch the lights! the look awful and cover half your lighting, which could solve your issue right off the bat.
^^This^^
Hella E-code or some Cibie housings with a good bulb and upgraded harness will give you amazing LEGAL lighting that can be used anywhere. Do the upgrade that you can use 100% of the time first, then add the fancy stuff for the 1% of your night driving later.