Okay, sorry for not updating sooner guys, I caught a flu or cold and had to sit out most of last week. I checked my XJ for the things that you mentioned to look for 5-90, and I concluded that the engine IS a RENIX engine.
I plan on making a Pick A Part run in the next week or so and I am going to acquire a 3 pole 2 wire connector from another XJ RENIX engine and solder and heat wire wrap the correct connector into the main pigtail harness so that I don't run into this problem again down the road.
Here is my next question: Ever since I unplugged the connector and plugged it back together, my XJ has been starting just fine. Should I replace the sensor now or wait until it starts acting up again?
My guess answer to that question is you guys are going to say that if I have the money, I should just get it out of the way before it becomes a larger problem and leaves me stranded possibly while out camping and wheeling. Please let me know what you guys think. Thanks!