Thanks Wayne ... I appreciate your info. I had to get this thing back together so I could go to a family get together. I ended up just torquing it down to 60 ft/lbs ... hope the threads are ok by doing that much more than 35 ft/lbs ...
I installed the Goferit Flip Bushing today and used some locktight on the threads ... there is no Castle Nut to pin.
Damn I need to fork the money out and get a FSM ...