-looks for the "flip the bird" emoticon-
;P
Lucky, lucky bastard.
(I hope it holds out for you. Asshole.

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I kid, of course. I spent something like 60 hours (not exagerating, actually under-estimating) putting the lift on my son's 97. Granted it was a bespoke lift (little of this, little of that-- JKS ACOS, ZJU coils, spring packs, shocks, BPEs, and so on all from half a dozen different manufacturers), but that wasn't the issue. Every fastener involved either sheered or was seized.. Nothing came off easy. Tip for you- if you can get to the nut side of the issue, take a MAPP gas torch (get it at Lowe's, Walmart, etc) and heat the nut till it's glowing a bit. It will come off much easier. Of course, replace that hardware after- you've damaged the temper.
The upper shock mount bolts in the rear are likely to sheer. Use an air hammer (or a 1/4" extension and hammer, but air hammer is best) and zap them out of the top. Then take replacement hardware (I think I used 1/4-20), wind a piece of safety wire around the threads leaving a tail long enough to feed through the reinforcement structure in that area (you'll see when you're there). Poke the tail through the hole and pull till the wire disengages. Easy peasy.
While there, take the rear swaybar brackets (if you have them) and use them as BPEs for the upper shock mounts, and never deal with those bolts again.. Toss the joke of a rear sway bar. While yes it may make some difference in body roll (highly doubt it, as I can bend it by hand!), I can't tell a difference driving my son's XJ at 4" higher than stock.