they chry. 8.25 deserves more respect then it gets. i pounded on mine with 35s, and it never skipped a beat. my friend has run his chry 8.25 on everytire size available between 30-38 and never had a problem. other then being extremely sluggish with stock gears.
so if you think your going to stop at 35s i say go for it.
even though ive never seen one fail, under fairly harsh wheeling, i wouldn't put any money into one. you only have so much aftermarket for the 8.25, and you can only make it so strong. with 44s, and 8.8s you have a wide number of options. if i built an 8.25 i would have needed gears (cant go to 5:13 which my 8.8 has), i would have wanted larger shafts (again cant upgrade any more the 29 spline), and a locker (im a lunchbox guy so both fit this category) and i wanted disk breaks
so for my the 8.25 just didn't do what i needed.
i have the same opinion on a dana 30. its a fairly stout axle...and i have no real problem with one being under my rig, but at the same time, i would go anyfarther then putting a cheap lunchbox locker into it
my combo was a waggy 44 front, and ford 8.8 rear, all in all over building up stock axles ive probably spend about 500 bucks more, but worry about them far less